TAKE A BOW

         THIS post is for all the women of the world who are trying to mend a broken Heart


i'm not a love expert or  a person good at taking advice... But i know about having a broken heart....it sucks LOL.



I'm just venting on this post about heartache and trying to pick up those pieces in my current circumstance, that invisible to the eye. I know how men can get you sidetracked and off balance, all to well.

LOVE IS SOMETHING TAKEN FOR GRANTED ALL TOO OFTEN. its something played as a game for that least emotional person invested, "Its chess not checkers" said best by the character, 'Alonzo Harris' from Training Day.

GETTING involved with the wrong person or someone who is so much like yourself; if intentions aren't sincere, leads to disaster. A disaster of the worse kind... and your the one left wondering why/ how-come???

Too many times women are the ones facing scrutiny or evaluating the results of a bitter love affair because we're the ones who've held on too tight or we're held to such a standard unreachable. We're the ones who gave into benefit of the doubt = in the name of love.

So as I try to move on with life as is, I'm learning to accept mistakes of yesterday, and considering propensities of  the future.

Time can be the enemy or it can be "THE GREAT EQUALIZER"  (like death)
it can only reflect what is presented, like a  mirror.

AGAINST MY WILL I STAND BESIDE MY OWN REFLECTION
                                             -------------LINKIN PARK

 
Relationships are hard work, and if the other person involved ISN'T ready to step up or compromise then there is nothing to build on; stability is forfeited and luck/karma is ultimately the downfall of what was suppose to be.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzMbTtgNb-I&spfreload=1

MEN ARE NOTHING BUT TROUBLE, TROUBLE, TROUBLE=====Betty Grable

.....and only the real know the deal.

 

Paying Homage to Bob Mackie

1/7/13 

Paying Homage to Bob Mackie

 

 What Bob Mackie means to me. Well since the beginning of my love affair for Cher dating back to 5th- 6th grade, I just remember falling in love with her style, her fashion sense and artistry.  I wanted to know who she was wearing, and who her main designer was because who ever they were I wanted to yo put a visual to such talent. I found out  his name was Robert Gordon Mackie a.k.a. Bob Mackie, he's an American fashion designer best known for his extreme use of sequins, and rhinestones. He designs outfits for the biggest icons of pop culture including but not limited to Cher, Judy Garland, Carol Burnett, Diana Ross and even (Alecia Moore) Pink!

I just adore clothes with sparkle and glitz, and shiny fabric because to me it's what gives your
outfit the cherry on top affect.

So this guy above is who you'll probably read about me referencing his work, and when I'm in my glitzy, showgirl glam persona while desiging couture, I have an alter-ego named "BARBRA MACKIE." 

I complied an array of some of my favorite outfits he's created

a True fashion deity to me,  I strive to live up to his brilliance.