TAKE A BOW

         THIS post is for all the women of the world who are trying to mend a broken Heart


i'm not a love expert or  a person good at taking advice... But i know about having a broken heart....it sucks LOL.



I'm just venting on this post about heartache and trying to pick up those pieces in my current circumstance, that invisible to the eye. I know how men can get you sidetracked and off balance, all to well.

LOVE IS SOMETHING TAKEN FOR GRANTED ALL TOO OFTEN. its something played as a game for that least emotional person invested, "Its chess not checkers" said best by the character, 'Alonzo Harris' from Training Day.

GETTING involved with the wrong person or someone who is so much like yourself; if intentions aren't sincere, leads to disaster. A disaster of the worse kind... and your the one left wondering why/ how-come???

Too many times women are the ones facing scrutiny or evaluating the results of a bitter love affair because we're the ones who've held on too tight or we're held to such a standard unreachable. We're the ones who gave into benefit of the doubt = in the name of love.

So as I try to move on with life as is, I'm learning to accept mistakes of yesterday, and considering propensities of  the future.

Time can be the enemy or it can be "THE GREAT EQUALIZER"  (like death)
it can only reflect what is presented, like a  mirror.

AGAINST MY WILL I STAND BESIDE MY OWN REFLECTION
                                             -------------LINKIN PARK

 
Relationships are hard work, and if the other person involved ISN'T ready to step up or compromise then there is nothing to build on; stability is forfeited and luck/karma is ultimately the downfall of what was suppose to be.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzMbTtgNb-I&spfreload=1

MEN ARE NOTHING BUT TROUBLE, TROUBLE, TROUBLE=====Betty Grable

.....and only the real know the deal.

 

My Lingerie dress: Magenta Nights

1/6/13

                            My  first lingerie style dress outfit of 2014, I call  Magenta Nights

I worked on this project for about 7 days, it was a lot of hard work, dedication and passion, as with anything in life requires, but I'm so proud. It's a lingerie dress and matching collar choker.

I worked with this pattern and then halfway through, I changed my mind about the bottom part and decided to try a pleated skirt dress, because it would be more flattering to my figure (with my wide hips, thighs, stomach). This was my rendition of something Kim Kardashian has worn, she's a fan of pleated, flare out skirts/ dresses.

 

you guys get to come with me on my couture journey, and watch me learn through trial & error, gaining practice,  perfecting my skills.

I used tulle fabric for the top portion, and this pink soft stretchy flower printed fabric. You know I just love my pinks!
 It feels almost silky, and it glided so smoothly through my sewing machine, I couldn't help but fall head over heels for it during the sewing process!
At the last minuet I made a neck choker out of crochet that I hand beaded pink pearl-like beads onto it.
Then I decided to go BOB MACKIE on the top portion with hand embellished beading to cover up my aurora's,
 so.... I can rock this with or without a bra, (my favorite part of the ensemble)
 I hope you guys enjoy and please check out my YouTube channel for the  video vlog on this post, so you can get a video visual of this project, and watch me twerk in my dress.

thanks for reading

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